We’re in a committed relationship but we’ll sell you a ‘threesome experience’ for £400

Since escorts Ryan Lee and Gigi Patsy began dating in June 2024, they’ve helped around 50 people have their first threesome.

‘That’s partly why I got Ryan’s number, because I get asked for threesomes all the time as a sex worker, and I get asked for cuckhold appointments, so I knew we could work together,’ Gigi, 30, tells Metro. ‘Then it turned into more.’

The pair have been sex workers for around four to five years, both enticed by the allure of being their own boss and flexible hours, as well as the money. They met for the first time two years ago to film porn together at Gigi’s Stevenage home, an opportunity set up via a mutual friend who was also in the industry.

But instead of having sex, Ryan, 26, and Gigi, spoke on her light-pink plush velvet sofa for hours, bonding over what it takes to have a relationship in their line of work.

‘I’d been single for five years and I’d tried to date, but it’s hard to meet someone who understands that I have sex for work, and that doesn’t mean the same to me as sex in a relationship,’ Gigi says.

Ryan tells Metro that he loved not having to explain himself or his profession to Gigi, and that meant they hit it off.

Almost from the get go in their relationship, they’ve been offering a ‘threesome assistance’ service on sex site VivaStreet, where people can pay to have a threesome with them for an hour for £400 (not including travel costs).

‘I had a lot of threesomes with women and their partners before I met Ryan, and I’d usually get an extensive list from women about what I could and couldn’t do to them or their partner,’ Gigi says, noting that single clients usually have more free rein without a spouse.

‘With Ryan and I, you can literally give us a list of things you do want to try and things you don’t,’ she adds.

It’s men booking threesomes…

Since Ryan has been involved though, it’s primarily men who have used the threesome service, bar two women.

Once they’ve booked, it’s not as simple as just showing up at Gigi’s door and taking their clothes off, there’s procedure to follow. ‘They think they just get here, take their clothes off and it gets done,’ Ryan says. ‘But we ask them to take a shower, and we have disposable toothbrushes so they’re nice and clean.

‘Gigi has to kiss them, and some of them come after smoking cigarettes, being at the pub, or after a long day at work with dirty hands.’

Common requests for the actual threesome include asking Ryan to be standoffish and watch as they have sex with Gigi, or sometimes they want him to walk in halfway through the appointment, as if they’ve been caught with his wife.

Sometimes Gigi will perform oral on Ryan alongside the male client, essentially giving him a ‘double blowjob’, or they will both pleasure Gigi.

‘We’re very open-minded, approachable and friendly, if you come in and want to chill out for a bit, there’s no pressure,’ Gigi says. ‘We’ve had guys who think they want to get involved but then they just watch because they’re nervous, but once they’ve met us, they usually want to come back.’

What makes someone book an appointment?

As for why men are booking to have threesomes, Ryan explains: ‘For some guys, two girls is a lot of work, but when men have another guy to please one woman, I feel like they can focus better.

‘These guys come to have a threesome with a real couple, so he feels he’s getting to watch me “f**k his wife” which gets him going.’

Gigi adds that while they have a lot of straight men and first timers, they also get men who want to explore their sexuality but don’t feel comfortable admitting it to anyone yet.

‘They say “well, I’m not gay”,’ she explains. ‘No one said you were. But we do get a lot of bi-curious men.’

Ryan adds: ‘Guys don’t always want to do a one-on-one with another man because they find that too intense or scary, but with Gigi around they find it easier to open up and try something they’ve wanted to try, but have struggled to accept.’

As a straight man himself, Ryan has boundaries of his own when it comes to what he will and won’t participate in, which their clients are informed of beforehand.

‘Getting hard around another man, as a straight guy, isn’t as easy as everyone thinks,’ he explains. ‘If the guy is bisexual and wants to do stuff to me, he can perform oral or kiss up my body or my face, but they can’t kiss me on the lips and I don’t touch them back. I’m just not that way inclined.’

Separating work and love

For Gigi and Ryan, paid sex with clients is entirely different from the intimate sex they enjoy with each other.

‘The sex between us is more special than what I call “empty” sex,’ Ryan explains. ‘When I’m escorting or filming porn I don’t care about the sex at all, I just want to perform for the money, but that’s where you have to be more creative about how you appear during sex.

‘When Gigi and I have sex we like to make it more special.’

They do this by keeping certain things sacred, just for each other, and maintaining those boundaries firmly during paid sex.

‘We don’t cuddle with anyone else,’ Ryan says, and Gigi agrees, adding: ‘I don’t want him texting them or cuddling and having breakfast with them.’

And Gigi has another boundary, which was recently crossed by a frequent customer, and she wasn’t impressed.

‘I had someone say my real name (not my sex worker name) while we were in bed together and I thought “ugh no”,’ she says. ‘It caught me off guard. I recoiled.

‘He said “oh, you didn’t like that did you” and I said “no, because my boyfriend calls me that”. If we’re cuddled up in bed, Ryan will say my real name.’

If Ryan and Gigi could give one piece of advice…

The one thing Gigi and Ryan think their clients could benefit from in their own relationships, is honesty.

‘People take their sex lives very seriously but people should just talk to each other,’ Ryan explains. ‘They’re so secretive and they come and tell us what they want to do sexually, but they’ve never told their missus, and she could be dying for it too.’

Gigi feels the same. ‘People don’t want to be judged, but that’s the person you’ve chosen to spend your life with, you should be able to talk to each other about it,’ she adds.

‘People should be as comfortable with their partners as they are with us.’

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