This is who you should be dating, based on your personality traits

When you’re on a date, it can be tricky to decipher whether you’ll be compatible with the person sat opposite you in the long term.

Will his agreeable nature be validating or annoying, will her need to be the centre of attention be endearing or frustrating? And that’s before you even consider core values around the likes of marriage or children.

The fact is, finding love can feel like a bit of a minefield, especially in the world of dating apps, with endless options and potential catfish clouding your judgement.

That’s why we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to decipher who you’re more likely to be compatible with, based on your main personality traits.

Of course, this isn’t a foolproof way to weed out your perfect match from a sea of duds, but it’s a decent starting point.

So, rather than swiping blindly into the void, find your dominant personality traits below and learn who might hold the key to your heart…

The creative, open individual

If this is you, you’ll be open-minded and curious about different perspectives, views and ways of living.

You’ll also be creative and imaginative, perhaps with a passion for painting, writing, acting or art.

Psychologist Eloise Skinner tells Metro that this type’s perfect match is likely ‘an extrovert who thrives in social, outward-focused settings,’ meaning you can ‘explore new experiences together.’

You’re also likely to be compatible with someone who has agreeable tendencies; someone with ‘traits like altruism, compassion and trust in others.’

Eloise adds: ‘This could enable the “open individual” to share their new experiences or imaginative thought processes, and be received with attention and appreciation.’

The conscientious individual

If you’re a conscientious guy or gal, you pride yourself on being responsible and structured, and you like things to have an order to them.

You’re also extremely determined and reliable – talk about getting things done.

In terms of compatibility, psychologist Eloise says there are two types of people who you could be in a relationship with, but you’ll likely go one way or the other.

‘If your traits are a strong part of your identity, it might be that your best match is someone similar to you – a fellow conscientious individual,’ she shares.

On the opposite end of the spectrum though, you may prefer an ‘extrovert who provides a sense of counterbalance.’

‘They’ll have outward energy and excitement, but also be open-minded and be able to adapt to the patterns and preferences of the “conscientious” one,’ Eloise explains.

The agreeable individual

If you’re considered to be ‘agreeable’ individual, your dominant traits are positivity, supportiveness, and being willing to help others in all situations.

If that wasn’t enough, you’re also extremely altruistic, compassionate, and empathetic; the perfect shoulder to cry on.

But the potential Achilles heel of an agreeable individual is being very trusting – sometimes too trusting.

‘If this is you, you’d pair well with a creative, open individual, which allows for creative and imaginative freedom, while also fostering mutual trust and support,’ Eloise explains.

Or you might find your true love elsewhere.

Eloise adds: ‘An intuitive, sensitive individual may be well suited, where the other person’s agreeable nature can provide a safe and stable foundation for a strong partnership.’

The intuitive individual

As an intuitive person, you’re sensitive, and emotionally-instinctive and intelligent. You’re also extremely thoughtful and introspective.

As we’ve just seen, Eloise believes you’re best suited to an agreeable individual, because you can foster trust and respect.

However, she adds: ‘You may also be compatible with the conscientious individual, who can give you a sense of order and who you can rely on within the partnership.’

The extroverted individual

Oh the extrovert, the life of the party. If this is you, you’re sociable and enthusiastic, with a willingness to throw yourself into things.

But you’re also firm and assertive – you know what you want.

According to Eloise, two types pair well here..

The first iscreative, open individual, ‘which will allow for an exploration of new ideas and experiences,’ and ‘mean you have a mutual enthusiasm for new activities.’

Or, you could be best matched to an agreeable person, who Eloise says ‘will provide a sense of reassurance and strong foundations to balance your outward-focused energy.’

As mentioned, this isn’t an exact science or a blueprint for relationship happiness. Now you have a rough idea what you’re looking for though, you can fine-tune your search – and hopefully, find a lasting connection with a partner who fits you like a glove.

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